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Finding new ways to enjoy sex can be both fun and fulfilling, especially when you bring a vibrator into the mix. Whether you’re having some solo time or spicing things up with a partner, we’ve got 37 great sex positions to help you make the most of it. Each sex position is designed to boost pleasure, add excitement, and enhance your overall experience. S
Solo Sex Positions with Vibrators
1. Lying on Your Back
This is a great sex position for complete relaxation to really focus on the feeling of pleasure. Lie completely flat on the bed, either with your knees bent or legs straight-whichever feels comfortable. Place the vibrator directly onto your clitoris and experiment with speeds and patterns that turn you on. You can also toggle between your nipples and other erogenous zones, adjusting pressure accordingly. For comfort’s sake, put a pillow under your hips or your head.
2. On Your Stomach
In this sex position, the user lies with their tummy facing downwards, elevating the pelvic area using a pillow to a considerable size. Let the vibrator be squeezed in between your body and the bed while it presses against either the clitoris or your pubic bone. The pressure from the face down amplifies the vibration so that an unusual sensation may propagate in the abdomen. Rock your hips gently so you can bring more sensation in, or adjust the intensity setting and see which one feels just right.
3. Sitting Up
Find a comfortable spot on a chair or couch where you can sit with your legs slightly apart. This position offers excellent control over the angle and placement of the vibrator. Hold the toy against your clitoris and tilt your hips back and forth to change the pressure and sensation. If your vibrator has multiple settings, experiment with varying them while maintaining steady contact with your body.
4. Kneeling
Get onto your knees with your legs apart, either on a soft surface like a bed or a yoga mat. Hold the vibrator to your clitoris with one hand, adjusting the angle for maximum pleasure. Lean forward or backward to find different pressure points or introduce gentle rocking movements with your hips. This is especially effective for reaching deeper spots and makes it perfect for wand-style vibrators or ones that have attachments for dual stimulation.
5. In the Shower or Bath
A waterproof vibrator takes it to a new level; add some warmth and calmness to your playtime in the shower or while leaning in the bath as water continuously cascades over your body. Hold the vibrator pressed against your clitoris or your other sensitive areas, reveling in the combined sensations of water and vibrating action. The ambient sound of running water is a further method of relaxation, and the steaming enhances this soothing atmosphere.
6. Against a Pillow
Place yourself in such a position that you are leaning back against a pillow or place it under your hips to lift them upwards. This arrangement provides an opportunity to find new angles for both internal and external stimulation. Hold the vibrator on the clitoris and change the height of the pillow until you come up with the most enjoyable angle. If aiming for internal spots, use a curved vibrator to follow the natural contour created by your hipped-up position, which allows accessing even deeper areas.
7. With a Mirror
Incorporating a mirror into your solo play adds the visual, thereby heightening arousal and self-discovery. Set up a full-length mirror where you can comfortably view yourself. While you are using the vibrator, observe the movement of your body and your responses; this will not only deepen your connection with your body, but it will also help you learn to adapt techniques based on what visually turns you on.
8. Standing
Start by standing and rest one leg on a chair or edge of the bed for better accessibility to all angles. With one hand holding the vibrator pressed against the clitoris or sensitive areas and the other applied in adjustments for balance, this stance allows for deep penetration if using an insertable vibrator, while increasing the sensation in all your muscles with this stranding pose.
9. Fetal Position
Lie on your side in a fetal position and get comfortable. This position gives one a sense of security and warmth, perfect for gentle exploration. Press the vibrator against your clitoris or any other erogenous zone, feeling the comforting feeling of being enveloped in softness. Move it around for the angles and intensities that work best for you. Let yourself go and completely indulge in the sensations.
10. Bridging
Lie on your back, lift your hips up, and support yourself with your feet flat on the ground with your shoulders anchored. This height elevation increases sensations, opening the pelvic area for deep internal explorations. A curved or flexible vibrator helps to reach the G-spot or other internal regions much more easily. The bridge position enables you to vary the rhythm and depth of the vibrations, thereby increasing pleasure with controlled rocking motions.
11. Lotus Position
Sit cross-legged and lean slightly forward, with your hands free to reach down. This position is great for experimenting with different pressures and speeds directly on your clitoris or other sensitive areas. You can use a small handheld vibrator easily this way, applying varying intensities. The slight lean forward increases your ability to control the movement and pressure for very precise stimulation to your liking.
12. Against the Wall
Stand or kneel against a wall for support. This position frees up both your hands for use. Center the vibrator on your inner thighs, nipples, or whatever other hot spots you might be interested in. Having the wall there can be a really nice balance—especially while you are experimenting with new angles or intensities. Lean slightly into the wall to adjust the pressure, and change up sensations.
13. On All Fours
Lie on your hands and knees and place yourself comfortably on the bed or carpet. In this position, you can reach the vulva from behind. The angle of approach differs, and you will be in a position to reach other areas that you usually do not. Take one of your hands to guide the vibrator along your vulva or clitoris, trying different speeds and patterns until you figure out what gives you more pleasure.
14. Relaxed Recline
Sit back in a recliner or comfortable chair where you are totally supported. This will easily allow you to shift from one point of stimulation to another with not much energy. Lean the vibrator against your clitoris, nipples, or any other hotspot, and savor the comfort of tiny adjustments with so little effort. This frees you up pretty well, too, for other varieties of erotic stimulation.
15. Crossover Legs
Sit or lie down in a comfortable manner and tightly cross your legs over one another. Placing the vibrator against your clitoris or any other pleasure point, after having done so, you will feel the crossing of the legs form unique pressure and vibration patterns. This is designed to heighten the sensations and concentrate them more deeply and strongly inside. You can adjust the tightness in which you are crossing your legs to form the combination that gives you the most pleasure, besides trying the different vibrations.
16. Yoga Pose (Child’s Pose)
Get into the child’s pose on your knees, laying your torso forward onto a comfortable surface while you stretch your arms out in front of you. This is both a very relaxing position but also allows for access at various angles. Place the vibrator underneath your pubic bone or between your thighs in a way that it gently presses against your clitoris or vulva. This rocking motion inherent in this pose lets you explore subtle movements and varied pressures for enhanced pleasure.
17. With a Blanket or Weighted Cover
Lie down and put a blanket or weighted cover on top of your body. The added weight can heighten sensory experiences by enhancing the feeling of warmth and comfort. Use the vibrator as usual on your chosen spots—such as the clitoris, nipples, or other sensitive areas—while enjoying the feel of the cover enveloping you. This extra layer can make the experience feel more intimate and soothing, allowing you to focus purely on the sensations from the vibrations.
Couples’ Sex Positions with Vibrators
1. Missionary Position
The missionary position means that one partner lies on their back, while the other is on top. During this, a vibrator against the clitoris amplifies sensations. The partner on top can hold it in place or the partner on the bottom can guide it for precise stimulation. This addition not only intensifies the experience for the receiving partner but can also create pleasurable vibrations for the penetrating partner as well.
2. Doggy Style
This is a position with one partner penetrating from behind, and it works amazingly well with a vibrator added into the mix. The receiving partner can hold a vibrator against their clitoris for some extra stimulation. Alternatively, it can be placed on the perineum to add subtle vibrations that both partners can enjoy.
3. Spooning
Spooning is an excellent intimate position wherein both partners lie on their sides to be as close to each other as possible. In this position, a vibrator integrates easily as the receiving partner can hold it against their clitoris or other erogenous zones. This position provides closeness and can also be very comfortable, wherein one can easily adjust the vibrator’s placement and settings without causing any disruption in the flow.
4. Between Bodies
Place a small vibrator between your bodies in almost any position, from cowgirl to missionary to standing. Use a flat or bullet-style vibrator for shared vibrations. This adds an extra layer of pleasure as the vibrations resonate through both partners, heightening the shared experience.
5. Oral Sex
A vibrator could be used during oral sex to provide additional stimulation to the genitals or other sensitive areas of the inner thighs of the receiver. One could receive oral while providing the stimulation with the vibrator themselves to the clitoris, labia, or base of the penis. The extra sensation will send excitations to the receiver and give an extra feel than regular oral sex.
6. 69 Position
In the 69 position, both partners give and receive oral sex simultaneously. A vibrator will increase the sensations of both. Each partner in turn can use a small vibrator on each other’s erogenous zones, or the receiver can hold it in place and enjoy both the oral and vibrating sensations simultaneously. This mutual augmentation might heighten arousal, building up to much stronger orgasms.
7. Straddling
Straddling involves a partner on their back as you lie over his/her on top and face in the direction most comfortable. Indeed, with this setup, you can find interesting ways to pleasure yourself further using the vibrator pressed against the clitoris or the perineum depending on position. For some people using an internal vibrator can enhance this kind of stimulation-it’s most comfortable to continue holding yourself or it may be useful for a partner to support it. This position allows for easy manipulation of the vibrator to match the natural rhythm, amplifying sensations and catering to both of your desires.
8. Standing
Standing, especially when one partner is against the wall, a vibrator can add thrilling dimensions to your sex life. The partner from behind can press a vibrator against the front-facing partner to stimulate areas such as the clitoris or nipples, amplifying the closeness and intensity of this pose. An internally placed vibrator can be used beforehand for focusing on movement and connection rather than manipulation during the act, letting both partners savor every moment of heightened sensation.
9. Cowgirl/Reverse Cowgirl
The versatility of this position gives one control over the angle and pressure, thereby letting one maneuver the vibrator precisely where it works best. You can position the vibrator on their clitoris while in Cowgirl or can have their partner assist, providing external stimulation. One might also be able to stay down during Reverse Cowgirl and more actively engage in the dynamics of sharing a vibrator. This setup allows the rider to target specific erogenous zones, such as the G-spot, for a customized experience in powerful, tailored pleasure.
10. Lap Dance Position
Try the lap dance position where one partner can sit comfortably on a sturdy chair while the other straddles him, facing each other close. The partner on top may use a small vibrator to tease-gently-his or his partner’s sensitive areas. Fall into a rhythm with one another and position the vibrator between your bodies so that you can share the sensation and adjust your movements to comfort and enjoyment.
11. Tandem Vibration
In tandem vibration position, the partners start by each choosing their vibrators, and finding a comfortable place where you could sit or lie together. Each one of you is to hold a vibrator, commencing lightly stimulating either their own or each other’s bodies, particularly the neck, nipples, inner thighs, and whatever other spots one would fancy. Coordinate movements by following along with the rhythms or doing an interlocking pattern to create a shared experience. As you move these vibrators on each other, communicate verbally or with subtle cues on what feels good and adjust pressure and speed based on preferences
12. Face to Face Sitting
To get into the face-to-face sitting position, both partners should sit upright and wrap their legs around each other, bringing their bodies close together. This position allows you to maintain intimate eye contact. While sitting this way, one or both partners can use a small vibrator externally on areas like the clitoris or perineum. Adjust the angle of your bodies if needed for comfort and to ensure the vibrator can be easily used without breaking the connection.
13. Crossbody Stroke
For the crossbody stroke position, have one partner lie across the bed horizontally with their legs hanging off the edge. The other partner should position yourselves at the edge of the bed, either standing or kneeling, depending on what feels comfortable. With a vibrator in hand, you can stimulate the partner’s erogenous zones such as the clitoris, inner thighs, or any other sensitive areas you can reach. Make sure to adjust positions as necessary to ensure easy access and comfort for both partners throughout the experience.
14. Clasped Hands
In the clasped hands position, your partner lies comfortably on their back while you sit between his/her legs, facing his/her. Hold each other’s hands to maintain a close connection. The seated partner can use a small, handheld vibrator to stimulate specific areas like the clitoris or perineum. You can experiment with different settings on the vibrator to find what provides the most pleasure, and communicate openly to ensure both partners are comfortable and enjoying the experience.
15. Side-by-Side
In the side-by-side position, both partners lie on their sides facing the same direction, with their legs intertwined. Keep a small vibrator within easy reach so you can pass it back and forth. Each partner takes turns using the vibrator, trying different speeds and pressures to target erogenous zones like the nipples, inner thighs, or other sensitive areas. By communicating about what feels best, you can tailor the experience to maximize enjoyment for both partners.
16. Reverse Spooning
For the reverse spooning position, have one partner lie on their side facing away while the other partner lies close behind you in a spooning posture. The partner at the back can use a vibrator to gently stimulate the back-facing partner’s erogenous zones, such as along the spine or over the buttocks. Adjust your positions as needed to maintain comfort and ensure easy access to desired areas.
17. Honeymoon Hug
In the honeymoon hug position, both partners sit facing each other with their arms and legs wrapped around one another in a tight embrace. You can place a small vibrator between your bodies at the clitoris or perineum to share pleasurable vibrations. This close contact makes every hug feel more exciting and intimate, while also allowing for deep eye contact and emotional connection.
18. Elevated Missionary
In this elevated missionary position, the receiving partner lies on their back and places one or more pillows under their hips to slightly lift you off the bed. This lets the receiving partner tilt back and in so that the penetrating partner can lie comfortably kneeling between the legs. The angle afforded by the raised hips tends to help with deeper penetration, and it’s quite easy to wear a vibrator at the same time. All one needs to do is place the vibrator against the clitoris or perineum. To facilitate comfort and a proper height that works for both parties, change as needed the number of pillows in use.
19. Back-to-Front Sitting
To do the back-to-front sitting position, have both partners sit on the floor or bed with their backs against each other and legs stretched out in front of you. Ensure you’re both comfortable and well-supported as you lean into one another. Each has one vibrator and can easily reach at the back, shoulders, or inner thighs. As much as in this position, a focus can be solely placed on each other’s comforts and pleasures by adjusting the motions accordingly for optimal personal satisfaction.
20. Bridge Over Partner
To do the bridge over partner position, have one partner lie on their back with their knees bent and feet flat on the ground. You then lift the hips up into a bridge, arching the body. The other partner, depending on how close you can get and still reach easily, takes a vibrator in hand and touches it to various spots of interest: abdomen, chest, inner thighs. This setup allows for creativity in how you both choose to stimulate these areas, ensuring comfort and ease of movement while focusing on each other’s needs.
Try These 37 Sex Positions with Your Vibrator
Using vibrators alone or with a partner introduces a level of playfulness and fun. This can be further aided by trying those 37 positions to find what feels best, thereby enhancing satisfaction. Always remember that communication and consent are important to ensure every moment is enjoyable and respectful.
